This is part the last part of the how to become a money magnet series. If you are landing on this post, I suggest that you go read part one and part two first, and then come back here once you’re done.
The Dilemma of Lacking Money
In order to attract it, if you are lacking money right now, you need to make a diagnosis of your problem is. What is the source of such lack?
If you feel sick, but are not sure of what could be wrong, you usually go the doctor who will diagnose the root of the illness, and give you advice, options, and medicine to heal or relieve your symptoms.
When it comes to money, very few people think about going to see a coach to understand the roots of their problem. That is the MAIN reason why their problem persists, as a matter of fact.
This post series is meant to try to help you understand why you might not be free financially right now, and give you some advice that I KNOW to be working for those who are truly and fully applying them. However, what this post series CAN’T do is find out what is YOUR own personal issues in regards to money.
There are two ways to find that out, if it’s what you want to do; either you need to figure it out on your own, or you need to consult a coach to help you. I can tell you right away that the second option is the best one, but if you feel like you can’t afford a coach right now, then I would advise you to follow my tips on this series.
Finding Your Money Dysfunction
Finding your money dysfunction is a must and a starting point to recovery, just like being diagnosed with a specific illness or disease in order to heal it.
Money dysfunction is something most of us have. If we didn’t we would have NO shortage of money. That’s as simple as that.
Most of us have some type of money dysfunction because of what our great grandparents, grandparents and parents thought about money, because of the culture we were born in, because of the media, and because of the overall worldwide beliefs about money.
In other words, your beliefs and dysfunction about money were there before you and it’s not your fault if you have such dysfunction, but it’s up to you to change it. It’s when you refuse to change it, while complaining about the fact that you don’t have money, that it becomes your fault.
There is nothing one can do to fix their money dysfunction if they refuse to take the actions needed. Such actions needed can vary from one person to another. For some it may be that they need to take more physical actions at that point, and for some it may be that they are still at the level of fixing potential subconscious blocks. Yet again, some might still be at the level of becoming aware.
The good news is that if you are reading this type of blog you are at least willing to find out what’s going on in your life and willing to address it.
The following are five “actions” that you can take to help change your subconscious mind programming about money.
1- Affirmations
Write a handful of self-talks/affirmations that are the exact opposite of what you’ve been taught about money. You can find tons of them online, and custom them to your own specific needs. Repeat those affirmations as many times as you can each day.
2- Associations
Try to hang out with people who are financially successful. Nowadays, because of our internet access anyone can find wealthy people to mingle with.
You can visit successful entrepreneur’s blogs, search for wealth minded groups on facebook, look for mastermind groups where success and wealth are discussed on a weekly basis.
You can register for success type events and seminars, you can write your dream life story, and even publish it online on one of those Web 2.0 sites, or create a blog about it. There are so many things you could do to improve your wealth mentality.
3 – Listen to Holosync Recordings
What is Holosync?
Holosync is a set of specific sound recordings that is intended to put your brain waves to the level obtained by regular meditation. The difference is that you are able to reach such level much faster.
Such sounds are sounds of a particular frequencies that take the brain into alpha and theta states. When the brain is entertained with such sounds that affects the alpha and theta states, over time, the person feels more clam, more at peace, more insightful and more in alignment we positive thinking.
Holosync helps the user to become overall more successful. I was introduced to Holosync three years ago, and I love its effects.
4 – Self-Hypnosis
Self-hypnosis, works wonder into helping someone to become “mentally wealthy” so, they can manifest physical wealth and money, because it talks directly to the subconscious mind. What self-hypnosis does is that it bypasses that part of our mind that is naturally blocking new ideas and concepts, call the “critical factor”, to enter the subconscious mind. For a more depth into what hypnosis and self- hypnosis are, read this post.
5 – Coaching
What people who are really serious about changing their paradigm about money, and other personal development issues, usually end up doing is consulting a coach.
There is no substitute to consulting someone who can actually ask you pertinent questions to pin point the source of the problem and give you concrete answers. A coach will also help you to see things that are totally blinding you.
As I’m writing those words, I am helping someone for the past few months who has made great progress. He told me just yesterday that when he is totally out of the bush he will probably be my best testimony.
But what I really want you to do, if you are at the point where you think that you need a coach, is consult with someone who you feel comfortable with.
If you want to know me better, you can browse through this blog and read my posts which I believe contain lots of very valuable information. Then you can also contact me with any question you may have.
In the meantime, I hope you enjoyed this series. Let me know all about it!
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I love this series Sylviane and I really would hope that everyone would consider coaching at some point.
I had to work with a life coach as you know probably three or four years ago now and she really helped me understand where a lot of my blocks were. I didn’t even get that I was thinking certain thoughts because they are subconscious thoughts. Even the slightest stuff like your Mom telling you that money doesn’t grow on trees will affect the way you think about money whether you realize it or not.
So most people say well I’ll just not worry about that when they don’t understand that it’s there unless you deal with it. You learn from it, you change those thought patterns. It’s not as easy as some people seem to think it is which is why a coach really helped me understand the root of it all.
I love this series and will be sharing it tomorrow in my post so watch out girl! I have to give credit where credit is definitely due! You rock Sylviane so thank you so much.
~Adrienne
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Hi Adrienne,
Well, it means a lot coming from you Adrienne. Thank you so much for sharing this. Wow, that’s cool.
I read a lot of personal development blogs myself and frankly, I think that mine still doesn’t have the kind of traffic it deserves, but I will be starting something soon that should so change that.
The reason why many people don’t consult with a life coach is because they want don’t want to deal with the expenses, and while I understand that, it becomes a vicious circle for them, because they can never get rid of deep, deep rooted problems, that only someone on the outside would be able to pin point to them.
Thanks Adrienne, you’re such a good friend 🙂 Have a fantastic day!
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Hi Sylviane,
Lack of money mindset starts within. Sure, everyone wants to make money but only a few understand that money is energy. It’s not real and that it’s a form a energy.
The way we feel about money does trace back to it’s roots of our parents, and our grand parents. The conditions have been passed down from generation to generation and I’m saying this from a standpoint of how most people are raised.
Like you said, it can vary but people should not use that as an excuse for not having money. We can make choices in our lives by deciding that we can reprogram our minds about how we feel about money.
Very informative post Sylviane! I will be coming back more often. 🙂
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Hi Nate,
I’ve seen you around other blogs I visit, but I think that it’s your first time here. So, I’m glad to see you here.
You are right on, money is energy, but very few people are even aware of that. That’s why I write this type of posts, to give my two cents in helping people understand better how to attract money in their life. Anyone can do it, once they understand better how all this works.
Thanks for coming and for your input.
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Hi Sylviane,
Nice going through all these series, and I do hope you aren’t really working too hard with them, and also enjoying your summer holidays a little 🙂
I haven’t really tried taking coaching or perhaps we don’t have very many life coaches our end as the trend hasn’t very well caught up. More so, I think even if one wants to start, sometimes people run away seeing the charges, even though they aren’t all that much, so one still is left in a fix about it. But where the problem is grave, and nothing is working, it’s best to consult a coach for sure.
I guess people need to read your post to change their thoughts they have about money 🙂
Thanks for sharing. Have a nice week ahead 🙂
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Hi Harleena,
Well, the good thing about coaching is that it doesn’t have to be a face to face consultation. As a matter of fact, most coaches that I know do phone consultations. I know an energy coach located in Spain, yet, most of her clientele is in the US. So, anyone really wanting coaching just needs to have a land line phone, or the internet.
Too many people still suffering from lack of money, so a series such as this one, is never one too many, right?
Thank you for coming, Harleena and have a great rest of the week.
Sylviane Nuccio invites you to read..How To Become A Money Magnet – Part Three
Hi Syviane,
Good tips on how to support a healthy mindset with money. I was intrigue by the holosync recordings.
I have practiced transcendental meditation but it does take time to quite your mind, I like the idea of getting there faster.
I’ll take a look at your self hypnosis post.
Thanks,
Tonya
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Hi Tonya,
Oh, I’m so glad you got intrigued by Holosync. I know meditation is great, but it takes both time and skills which not everyone has.
The good thing about Holosync is that it basically does the work for you. There are just very few rules to follow, such as being in a sitting position, and relax as much as possible. My Holosync recoding is from Bill Harris who is a specialist of those things. If you have any question about it, let me know.
Thanks for coming by:)
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Hi Sylviane
Great series. Too bad most of us have to undo the damage we were raised with. There was always limits on what we could achieve, unless you were born into it or married into it (money).
So we spend a good portion of our lives correcting our mindset if we have been fortunate enough to be introduced to this concept. Otherwise it is study hard, work hard and invest wisely, then may be you will have a comfortable life, not an extraordinary life, just a comfortable one.
We were never given the mindset that we were limitless if only we believed we could be. Believing you can beyond a shadow of a doubt will make it happen.
Mary
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Hi Mary,
“We spend a good portion of our lives correcting our mindset if we have been fortunate enough to be introduced to this concept”. So true, Mary!
As I read this sentence in your comment I could only agree. It made me think of all the people I know that were never “fortunate enough” to even be introduced to such concept. However, this said, I do believe that if there is something in you that is truly looking for answers, you will eventually find them. I think that’s how it happened to me and from what I’m hearing to others as well. In other words I had all the desires necessary to attract personal development to me.
This is one of the fact of our lives, we have to unlearn a lot of things, because they were taught to us out of ignorance. Nowadays, we have the power to put a stop to such ignorance.
Thank you for your input, and have a great weekend.
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I am currently consulting with a mentor myself, and he is giving me daily actions, and holding me accountable to following through. He came in an amazing way, actually through affirming that the mentor I needed would show up.
I have used binaral beats and subliminal recordings for a while as well, although I haven’t specifically used the Holosync method. I will have to look into that.
Sometimes, the actions we think we need to take aren’t the actions that lead to what we need. I have spent a week taking the action steps I could think of to get the money I need for a house I am trying to get. All the money I did get came from different sources than the actions I was taking, so I started stepping aside, following my intuitions and trying to let something else guide me to the money I was needing. Almost there, and I am letting go of my desired outcome and allowing it to fall however it may at this point. I keep taking the actions I see, and although they don’t provide the desired results, its the willingness to take action that is often the catalyst…
Another thing I found in this situation is the focus of what you are doing and the WHY.
For example, with this house, when I focus on my need to have a place to live in a very short ammount of time, things go into panic mode, and I start blocking the flow.
But, the house was trashed, and there is a TON of litter and trash all over the land. when I focus on the opportunity to be of service to the land, and caretaker of the property, cleaning up the trash that is killing the soil and the plants there, I find that things are flowing much easier and faster than I could have expected.
Everything you do, although sometimes self serving in some ways, can be turned into an opportunity to serve others (and not limiting your service just to people…)
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Hi Sylviane,
That was an amazing series. I really learned a lot.
I really liked your 5 tips on how to change our subconscious mind programming. They are all spot on and they are good advice on shifting into the appropriate mindset about money.
Thanks Sylviane and I really appreciate your valuable work to create these helpful post. I am sure it will help so many people.
Be Blessed,
Neamat
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Hi Neamat,
Yes, I am always striving to make those posts as useful as possible. Seeing the comments I’m getting, it seems that I’m doing a good job 😉 Now I need the traffi to prove it right? I am actually working on that one as we speak.
Thank you for your regular comments.
Have a fantastic weekend!
Sylviane Nuccio invites you to read..How To Become A Money Magnet – Part Three
Hi Sylviane,
Most of us lack money right now. Me included. So I agree. A diagnosis of my money problems is needed.
Beliefs and dysfunctions about money. There are, of course and I know there are many. I cannot contact a coach for the moment. I will do it when the time will come.
Until then, I think I will try to improve things a little bit by trying some of your ideas.
What I would like to try?
Point 1. Already done and I like the way I felt after that. I will definitely repeat it many times.
Point 2 Excellent idea. Always, always.
Point 3. I never do this. I don’t trust this kind of recordings.
Point 4. Self-hypnosis can be done but it’s a very delicate method. You are dealing with your mind and your soul. You absolutely need advice from an expert on how to do it.
Point 5. Coaching? Yes. When the time is right. An absolute must.
Thanks for the tips and
Have a nice day
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Hi Silviu,
I’m glad that you like some of those methods.
Obviously, if you don’t trust a certain type of recordings is better not to use it as it would probably don’t work in such case anyway. It works great for me and for a lot of people.
Self hypnosis is not like hypnosis where you lose consciousness. NO. We are in a state of self hypnosis several times a day, we just don’t realize it. What self hypnosis does you are conscious of it, and at least concentrated on what you want as oppose to whatever when you are not in control. Self hypnosis is not dangerous in anyway, it’s a natural process similar to meditation, not falling in a comatose state.
Hope this help clarify thing for you. But again, if you are against it, better not using it.
Thanks, for coming
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Hi Sylviane,
The power of the mind never ceases to amaze me.
I was interested to hear you mention holosync recordings – I tried those in the past, but I’ve recently gone back to just simple meditation, which I practise for 20 minutes each day – I just use the traditional method of focusing on my breathing. I watched a TV show recently that demonstrated some research indicating that this kind of meditation can actually lead to demonstrable changes in your brain, reducing anxiety and negative tendencies.
I think self-affirmations are helpful, whether related to money or any other issues you need to tackle – ideally linked with visualisation, which I know you’ve also mentioned.
Thanks for a fascinating and unusual series, Sylviane – you’ve given us lots of interesting tips and suggestions here.
Sue
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Hi Sue,
You’re right, the mind is amazing, indeed.
Yes, Holosync is exactly the same as meditating and since I’ve got several comments about this alone I think that it’s time for me to write a post about this fantastic tool. Yes, indeed it helps to calm down, concentrate, reduce anxiety and many other things.
Thanks you for coming and have a wonderful week!
Sylviane Nuccio invites you to read..How To Become A Money Magnet – Part Three
Hi Sylviane,
Great thoughts!
The mind is where it’s at. What you get out of life directly reflects what you first put into your mind. Very true!
I have used self hypnosis (with pre-recorded audios) in the past and am thinking I should start using them more regularly again.
Great article full of useful and information and tips. I was practicing hypnosis in the past, but now I believe it’s time to start it over again. This article is very motivational for me. Thank you so much.