This is part four of my series how can you attract more business. If you are just getting here I would suggest that you go read part one, two and three first. If you did read the previous three posts you know that I suggested that you practice self hypnosis to put anything you want to accomplish in your subconscious mind. So, in this post, I am not going to go over what I’ve spoken about in the previous post of this series, but I wanted to talk about what type of actions you need to take once you’ve gotten into the practice of asking your essential silent partner (your subconscious mind) for what you want.
Self hypnosis, with the appropriate actions, will not only help you get what you’ve been asking for, but it will come to you the easy way. But let me explain…
The False Belief of Having to Work Hard to Succeed
There is a widely spread belief out there, no matter where you’re from in the world, that you need to work hard to achieve what you want or anything of value. The reason why so many people do actually have to work that hard it’s because they try to achieve something from a conscious level and conscious level only. Anything that you are trying to achieve from a conscious level will be much harder to achieve, indeed.
Dr. Anthony puts it like this: anytime you are suffering or struggling, you are mis-creating! Anytime you struggle or feel pain, you are attracting what you don’t want, rather than what you do want.
Any type of struggle, pain, and hard time attracts resistance, and resistance is not a good vibration for creation. Creation is NOT supposed to be hard. Creation is supposed to come easily and painlessly.
Why is Creation Supposed to be Painless and Easy?
Do you have a hard time believing that creation is painless and easy? Well, look around you and you might change your mind.
The reason why creation is painless is because we are part of the universe, and the universe doesn’t create in pain, but naturally and easily. Have you ever watched nature? Take a minute and think about flowers blowing, leaves on trees growing or waters flowing. Does that happen painfully? No, it doesn’t. All of those things come forth painlessly and with ease. It happens without any type of resistance.
At the end of winter you look at the dead looking trees and then you start seeing a beginning of foliage, and if you look away long enough you’ll see a full blown green foliage on that tree. You’re saying to yourself, how did it grow so fast? Well, it did. Silently, easily and rapidly. The tree went from totally leave less to completely green covered with thousands of leaves that seem to have grown overnight.
This is how the universe works, this is how it creates. Since we are part of this universe, our creation system is working the same as anything else in nature, and we are able to create easily and painlessly, as long as we do it from the source. The source of our creation, as I explained it in the previous post of this series, is our subconscious mind. If we use our subconscious mind to create we will be using the forces of the universe to do so. Instead of struggling to get what you want you will be doing so easily. As Dr. Anthony mentions in his Self Hypnosis Tutorial, “you can create the easy way or you can create the hard way”. Many people make the mistake to do it the hard way, because they don’t know any better, but what way would you choose if you did?
What’s the Difference Between Creating the Hard Way and Creating the Easy Way?
Here let me give you a couple of examples that would be crating the hard way and creating the easy way.
The hard way
For example, you could be looking for more clients or the right clients for your business. The hard way to do this would be to spend thousands of dollars in hit or miss advertising or spend a lot of your time going to fetch for them. And again, there is nothing wrong with that. Many companies and businesses do that, don’t they? But this is still the hard way to find clients. It can be time consuming, expensive and painful. In other words, you might have to struggle a little going only that route.
The easy way
The easier way that you can use to find more or the perfect clients for your business is simply ask to your Essential Silent Partner while under self hypnosis. Does that mean that you don’t have to take any kind of action while doing so? No, not at all, but it will be inspired actions. You will be inspired to make a phone call, post an ad somewhere specific, talk to someone, meet someone that could help, and a zillion of other things that you will be inspired to do, or attracted to, which you would have otherwise NOT done or be attracted to.
Those steps will take you to your perfect client or clients the easy way. Not only it will be easy, but it will be exactly what you want, what you are looking for. This is what will make it painless.
If you are tired of struggling for what you want, quit believing that you have to work hard for it. Instead go inside and create your results from the source by communicating to Higher Intelligence through your subconscious mind with self hypnosis.
Leave your questions and comments below!
That all makes perfect sense to me Sylviane. I mean I continue to hear all the darn time to work smart not hard and of course, unless someone is showing us how to do that then we continue to work the way we know.
As I’ve mentioned before, I’ve never been able to by hypnotized but I also know that since it’s never worked for me that I continue to “say” that. I need to turn that around and tell myself that it’s pretty darn easy and then just jump in head first.
I still have the link to Dr. Anthony’s product but haven’t had time to check it out. Too many irons in the fire but you’ve enticed me into taking a look at it sooner then later. I think this would really benefit me and help me in this area as well. I’m already do the visualization four times a day with the feeling so throwing this in the mix would be just what I need.
Thanks for this series, I’m thoroughly enjoying it as well as your videos.
~Adrienne
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Hi Adrienne,
You got it. If you keep saying that you can’t get hypnotized, well you won’t. Also, don’t forget that you do not need to be “knocked out” to be in trance, you will just be perfectly concentrate, but you will still be aware of your surroundings. It’s that a lot of people have twisted the word “hypnosis” big time. Before I discover what it really is, I was very confuse about it.
So, yes, please, stop saying “I can’t get into hypnosis”, because every time you say or think it, it will only reinforced that fact. My mother played the lottery for years while she kept saying “we will never win”, they when she was observing a cousin of hers winning, not big fortunes, but regularly, she was saying, she is lucky. Well, the cousin was probably saying “I’m winning” instead of what my mother was saying. Of course, my mother never, ever thought of that.
See, people do things like this all the time, by ignorance, and then they call others lucky. Luck has nothing to do with this at all. That’s why I want to teach people about those things.
Thanks for coming, Adrienne.
“Work smarter, not harder!” Boy, if there’s a lesson that’s HARD to learn, it’s that one. I think there are 2 kinds of “working hard”. There’s the working hard that you really need to do because if you just try to skate by without doing much, taking the easy way out and thinking you’re going to get rich quick, then you’re pretty much mistaken. You have to put forth effort to be good at what you do. But then there’s the working hard that’s just going uphill all the time, struggling and thinking its ok because you have to do it. That’s the kind of hard work we can do without!
Sometimes it’s a matter of recognizing ways to work better. To your point, sometimes you’re just fighting against yourself and making things worse. The first thing you have to do is recognize the difference. You really have to dig down and understand what you’re doing and why.
I love the idea of inspired actions. It doesn’t mean you don’t have to work but it means you take better action than the hard ones you’ve been taking all along. Today I read about self-hypnosis on Donna Merrill’s blog, too, and she was talking about getting focused when you have a lot of work. The two of you should get together and do a webinar. I’ll be the first one on your list, I think I need a little self-hypnosis!
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Hi Carol,
Of course I wasn’t talking about get rich quick schemes here, but about as you mentioned, not working against yourself by working hard for nothing. Taking inspired actions is still work, but it will be easier work, focused work and useful work, not “hard” work. And when I say hard work, I mean “hard” in a negative way, it will not be this kind of hard. If it’s hard at least it will be good hard.
To give you an example, I ask to be inspired to write good and inspiered content during self hypnosis, but my posts still need to be written, right? But I write them with a lot of easy, it’s not hard for me to write. As a matter of fact, when I get close to 1000 words I have to tell myself, OK, you need need to finish up soon now. See what I mean? Imagine if those who complain that they don’t know what to write about, would do what I do, they wouldn’t have to work that hard. Would they?
Hum, a seminar with Donna! I love that idea! I’ve got to tell her about that!
Thanks for your comment, Carol!
Wonderful post with a great message in the video Sylviane!
You are so right about saying that most of us have the misconception that we have to work hard to get the results we desire. But you clarified that so well by giving the example of nature, the trees, and the leaves etc, which are all part of nature and grow so effortlessly.
I guess when we go within ourselves and the let the subconscious mind take over instead of the conscious mind, we see a massive change with the way we deal with people and things. By using self-hypnosis we would be inspired to take the required actions instead of being forced or compelled to take them, which would make working more pleasurable than a pain.
Thanks for sharing and making us all realize the importance of working intelligently and not hard to achieve results. 🙂
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I’m glad you enjoyed the post and video, Harleena 🙂
I know that this is a brand new concept for some people, but basically as long as they don’t get it, there are, as matter of fact, going to continue to work hard.
I took that illustration of the trees, flowers and all things in nature, because it illustrate that point very well, and we are part of such nature. Aren’t we?
Thank your for coming by and appreciate your comment, Harleena 🙂
Hi Sylviane
Oh this “work hard” concept is so ingrained in many of us. I sure had (and to some extent still have) this running in my life. I used to feel guilty if I had time off. I used to feel weird if too much success came too quickly.
I love the way you explained the example of the tree. It is such a good illustration.
I now have an affirmation which says “all of life comes to me with ease, joy and grace”
A great message thanks Sylviane.
Sue
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Hi Sue,
I’m glad you enjoyed the post and my illustration of the trees. I think that it should help people see what I mean very well.
I totally know what you mean by feeling weird when we have success and even guilty. We do this because we live in such a world of negativity that it’s affecting us whether we are aware of it or not.
Thank you for coming by, Sue 🙂
Well Hello Sylviane
Since giving up and throwing in the towel and taking a look at all the mystic self hypnosis power of belief nonsense, I was staggered to discover that it actually works!
As Adrienne points out sometimes, we feel like we cannot be hypnotised, this maybe because the gatekeepers are stopping that particular message from getting through, in this case try an easier sell for your gatekeepers first. Once you know that self-hypnosis works, you can challenge those barriers with the harder messages.
Unfortunately its all too easy to fall back into the trap of working hard and so making connections with people who will steer you right and show you a better way is all important in creating the life you desire.
igor Griffiths
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HI Igor,
Nice to see you again here 🙂
I am very glad that you are confirming to my readers that self hypnosis works. I think that out of all the many techniques that one can use to improve and change their life, this is one of the easiest and fastest as well.
Thank you for coming, Igor.
Hey Sylviane,
Looks like we are on the same page lol! I’ve been hypnotized in the past many times for different reasons for my growth and development. I love it! I find that life’s tasks are so much easier through this method.
I remember the first time all I was thinking while being under hypnosis that “this isn’t going to work” but the result the next day was fascinating. I actually had a good result.
I have been in and out of hypnotherapy for a very long time and do love self-hypnosis.
I recommend this to everyone!
Donna
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Hi Donna,
Thank you for your emphasis about self hypnosis. Yes, it does work, no doubt and the reason why it does so well it’s because it speaks to the subconscious mind directly by by-passing the conscious barriers.
Thank you for your feedbacks, Donna 🙂
Rightly said–I think that we all have this tendency to be too hard on ourselves. Hypnosis is a relatively new concept to me but I want to be able to explore it further to improve my concentration. Thanks for the valuable share.
Hi Joy,
You’re welcome and I hope that you will try self hypnosis for yourself in the near future, but learning about it first is the reasonable thing to do.
I think that this kind of self-hypnosis needs a balanced personality, somebody who has already found his peace of mind, controlling our thoughts and try to generate our own motivation isn’t easy at all. But it is the strongest inspiration we can have because it came to the world in our mind, it wasn’t told or forced.
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Hi Virag,
I think you’ve got a point here. It is definitely better not to start self hypnosis if you sill have a arrays of issues and bad thoughts going through your mind all the time. But this type of information usually doesn’t attract people who are still way out there, so to speak.
So in other words, such people won’t even see this post. The ones who do may already be in alignment with this type of information.
Thank for your feedbacks.
Hi Kristine,
Yes, I know what you mean. You can work all this out from the inside, instead. Self hypnosis is excellent for this.
Thanks for your feedbacks and keep in touch.
My conscious mind is not serving me well right now in that I am working hard but not smart. I involve myself in too many things because I am interested and become sidetracked far too easily. I know what the priorities are and what I should be concentrating on but have difficulty staying on task. Maybe it is procrastination.
I know I need to regularly stand back and contemplate what I am doing; listen to that subconscious mind and let my silent partner help me. What you have talked about in this series makes perfect sense to me. Putting it into practice is the hard part.
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